Everyone is capable of healing.
MEET YOUR THERAPIST
Brian Rogers
Pre-Licensed Professional, MSW
Why I Chose this Path…
I have been humbled by the experience of my own healing. I am passionate about helping others as a result of seeing the depth of my own suffering & that of humanity. It is my mission to help others get to the core of their suffering to heal it and move beyond it to live a life of fulfillment and wellbeing.
My personal journey began in my late teens when I had a profound realization of all I didn’t know or understand regarding relationships, healing, and mental/emotional wellbeing. With no reliably mature role models around me to turn to for guidance, healthy feedback or direction, I knew I needed to begin my path of healing and learning outside of my primary family structure.
I had the heart for the journey, but I felt pretty lost on how to answer the numerous questions and frustrations I was experiencing. I was disconnected from my inner world and relationships, and challenged by the lack of support I found in the world around me. So I set out to learn what I could. This was the beginning of a life long path into the field I’ve practiced in one way or another for the past 27 years.
I began by absorbing and integrating the things that worked and sifting through far too many that promised the moon yet delivered very little return for the investment. Through trial and error, often one step forward and two back, I gradually put together a fairly vast and eclectic knowledge and understanding of the field I chose as my vocation, (or maybe it chose me, as I’ve often wondered in hindsight).
I simply found a passion and a love to understand how things go astray in one’s childhood, what can be ultimately effective in healing and righting the wrongs, and what tends to keep us stuck repeating cycles, habits and outcomes that are lesser than we set out to achieve.
This journey proved to be incredibly complex, yet over time it became quite clear and simple once I began to understand how the mind, body and emotions operate interdependently within us. I learned that to break conditioning, one must want to understand deeply how their unique conditioning has come to be. Once you see it, you can change it - but changing it without seeing it first is a fool's errand.
My passion was first and foremost only one of my own healing, growing, understanding, maturing and integrating. But all the while, while I worked, I fed the intention that I would one day use what I learned to help others figure it out as well. While I am still deeply devoted to my own self-awareness and growth, my passion is now to help others on their path. I use what I have learned to guide clients to their own healing, minus the mistakes I made and the rabbit holes I explored that ended up being full of mostly empty promises. It is a joy to streamline this process to help others to find what they were searching for without spending a lifetime getting there.
“It is my mission to help others get to the core of their suffering to heal it and move beyond it to live a life of fulfillment and wellbeing.”
My Background
My journey initially consisted of learning all the traditional western techniques and methods to become the best psychotherapist I could. But it wasn’t until I opened myself up to what the west would call more “non-traditional”, that it all began to come together.
My journey initially consisted of learning all the traditional techniques and methods, CBT, RET, Psychodrama, psychoanalysis, the ways of Freud, Carl Rogers and Carl Jung, etc, and becoming the best psychotherapist I could in the traditional western based approach. But all the while to me there was still something vastly lacking in these approaches alone. They helped, but they didn’t stick, changes were fleeting and short term at best and this was just not good enough for me. There had to be more…
It wasn’t until I opened myself up to what the west would call more “non-traditional”, (even pseudoscientific, spiritual, esoteric, energetic, mystical, & ancient, as well as modern newer knowledge such as quantum physics, entanglement and epigenetics) that it all began to come together.
The pieces that seemed to be missing in the western more traditional approaches were right there in the eastern philosophies + practices. They were brought together quite nicely through quantum theory and a more holistic understanding of how it all works energetically.
It’s never been hidden, it’s been kept separate through one side's fear of the other. Well, I wasn’t afraid of either side so I enveloped all that I could and this was what ultimately made all the difference in my own journey and now in the work I do with others. To me, “holistic” means nothing is left out of one’s willingness to understand the whole - absolutely nothing. And, from there, everything starts to become possible again.
This is what makes me unique in my field and what makes me ultimately effective in helping others find their way. Not my way, as I don’t really have “a way”, but their way and it will be theirs and unique to them. Once an individual has this, there is no more need for me. You just keep applying what you now know works for you and change is all but assured, even if it takes a bit longer than most people imagine, it is worth it.
The time it takes is rooted in our biology far more than it being rooted in our thoughts or emotions, but that’s a story for another time…
“To me, “holistic” means nothing is left out of one’s willingness to understand the whole - absolutely nothing. And from there, everything starts to become possible again.”
My Approach
“Old habits die hard, but they die certainly, if one persists, they do.” - Osho
The key to how I support my clients to create the results they want and need is through individualized care. The support they receive is tailored to their goals, process, pace, uniqueness and desires. I focus on empowering them to rely on their own inner navigation, unique strategy and authority. I incorporate the application of various traditional and non-traditional wisdom techniques vetted in over 27 years of practice and experience. Together, we address the heart & root of things.
You will find our work together very honest, direct, and compassionate. Our sessions will begin by meeting you where you are at, learning what you want and need in your field of healing, and beginning to gently but consistently unwind problematic conditioning.
We will always start with compiling a detailed personal history that will be done in narrative conversational format. In short, it begins with your story, and I want to hear every detail of your story from your conception to now. This includes everything you remember in addition to stories you may need to ask caregivers or family members to provide. The reason for this is that the problems you are facing today are undoubtedly connected to your ancestral blood line. The things that you are experiencing may have little to do with what is happening in your present life - and this is why we start with exploring all of the foundations of who you are today.